How to scientifically identify a playboy
How to scientifically identify a playboy
In 2021, the prestigious psychology journal Current Psychology published a fantastic research paper. Scholars from Southwestern University in China and the Australian National University have conducted a grand summary of love rat. The researchers attempted to identify and understand the definition and structure of love rat traits from an evolutionary perspective and from a modern psychological perspective.
After a series of analysis, the researcher managed to identify the four elements of a scum, which are: poor interpersonal interactions, bad personal qualities, machismo and seriously hurt relationships, and irresponsible sex.
Element 1: Poor interpersonal relationships
The other party often makes promises but never keeps them;
When there is a disagreement, you try to communicate and solve it, but he has an impatient attitude and only says "I'm wrong, okay?" and "I can't help it if you think so";
He is not willing to respond to expressions of love, but only responds passively.
Whenever he encounters difficulties, he uses the excuse that he is too busy to avoid responsibility.
Element 2: Poor character quality
Excessive attention to the appearance of the opposite sex as an important criterion of judgment;
Poor self-control and laziness;
Reluctance to admit mistakes, bragging and excessive vanity;
Always thinking about speculation and refusing to work in a practical way.
Element 3: Machismo and relationships that are severely damaged by this
Scumbags usually consider their partners to be subordinate to them. They also glorify this as love.
Have a strong desire to control their partner and suspect their partner without reason.
Always feel free to belittle and blame your partner.
Threaten to break up at every turn and never offer to help when in trouble.
Element 4: Irresponsibility in sexual behavior
Not actively taking safety measures during sex;
Breaking up immediately after having sex;
Not respecting the wishes of the partner and forcing sex on the partner (including coaxing, etc.)
Believing that women are only instruments for procreation.
Overall, if you find yourself encountering a man with too many elements of scum, don't hesitate to cherish your life and stay away quickly.
Although the literature analyzes heterosexual men, but in a diverse relationship, when your partner has the above characteristics, pay attention to all of them.
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